PREAMBLE

PREAMBLE

“Teach a child in the way he should go;

And when he is old, he will not depart from it.”

These words taken from Proverb 22:6 speak loudly of the responsibility of parents and caregivers to the children entrusted to them. In these modern days with the advent of such a large and diverse selection of electronic gadgets, our children are bombarded with so many distractions from every direction that it becomes increasingly difficult to keep up with their spiritual development.

We as adults, often overwhelmed by the demands for survival, are guilty of neglecting our responsibilities of ensuring our children’s growth. We are losing sight of the fact that at this stage children are at their most receptive phase for absorbing information and unless we make an effort to help them, they are likely to acquire wrong information from other sources.

I believe no one is better equipped or better placed to do the job than the parent or the caregiver. By making use of every opportunity to teach the words of Jesus Christ, to read the Holy Bible as well as by setting personal examples we can build our children’s faith and offer them alternative examples to live by. In this way we can prepare them to deal with the many and varied temptations they will face in life as they go forward.

These stories under the banner “The Old Lady and Ana” grew out of a discussion I had with my cousin Starr Sabga during which we lamented that our children are not being exposed to reading and discussing the bible as we were. We both felt that as a result of this we are missing a very important opportunity to expose them to God’s words and running the risk of losing them.

The stories are strictly my interpretation of selected passages from the Bible based on my Christian education and on my own life experience. They are meant for the younger child, as examples of how we may use day to day experiences to learn about God’s word. They are by no means exhaustive but I trust they may serve to get other parents and caregivers to do the same.

If this happens, then I would consider myself fully rewarded.

Saturday, April 30, 2011

18. THE OLD LADY AND ANA-PROVERBS(The Lazy Man)

Little Ana was upset because of what her father was saying of his cousin, George. He kept saying that George was lazy, useless and no good. He never did any honest work and was a shame to the family. She could not understand why her Dad said all these harsh words about him because she always found him to be so kind and considerate and always willing to stop what he is doing and spend hours with the children. Waiting for a quiet moment, she gingerly approached her grandmother and with trepidation, she asked her:

“Are lazy people so bad that everybody has to condemn them and criticize them all the time?”

The old lady, recognizing genuine concern in her grand daughter, beckoned her to come and sit with her and picking up her bible said;

“My dear Ana, please understand that lazy people are not necessarily wicked people. But laziness is in a way, a sin against God. The bible, the true word of God, has many references about God’s displeasure of laziness and leaves no doubt of God’s response. Let me read some excerpts from Proverbs to illustrate what I mean. First let me read from Chapter 26:13-16:

The lazy man says,
‘There is a lion in the road!
There is a lion in the streets!’
As a door turns on its hinges,
so does a lazy man on his bed.
The lazy man buries his hand in the dish;
It wears him out to bring it back to his mouth.
The lazy man is wiser in his own eyes;
Than seven men who can answer sensibly.

“This is meant to describe a lazy man. He tries to make excuses to avoid work like saying there is a lion outside, or he stays in bed all the time without making any effort to get up, or even to feed himself. All the while, the lazy man feels he knows everything, even more than seven wise men. Because their main concern is their own comfort and not making the effort, they spend their time finding excuses to avoid work, rather than reasons to work.”

Ana looked at her grandmother for a moment as if she understood, and then spoke:
“Is this why Dad always says that Uncle George will never amount to anything, and will always remain poor and look for help?”
The old lady paused briefly and with a deep sigh she continued:
“Yes my child, in a way you are correct. You cannot expect to achieve anything without making the effort to do so. Listen to what God says in Proverbs 10:4-5:

A lazy hand causes poverty;
But the hand of the diligent makes rich.
He who gathers in summer is a prudent son;
But he who sleeps in harvest is a son who brings shame.

“God did not mince his words in any way. Not only does the lazy man remain poor while the worker prospers, but even more, the one who sleeps away when there is work to do, brings shame on himself and his family.”

Ana, sat up with both her hands cupping her face to underline her astonishment, turned to the old lady and spoke solemnly:
“Do you mean that Uncle George will always be poor and not able to make enough money to take care of himself and his family?”

The old lady placed her left arm around the child’s shoulders and nodded gently as she spoke:
“Let me read two more excerpts from Proverbs.
-The first is from 12:24:


The hand of the diligent will rule;
And the lazy man will be put to forced labor.

-And the second is from 14:23:

In all toil there is profit;
But mere talk tends only to poverty.

“This summarizes the end result between the lazy man and the worker. The worker will grow and prosper as a result of his diligence and hard work, while the lazy man who prefers to talk rather than work, will be left behind to struggle in poverty.”

Ana, getting up slowly, turned to her grand mother with a sad and disappointed face and said, as she walked away:

“Now I understand why Dad is so upset with Uncle George. He loves him too much to allow him to become a failure and a loser.”

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

17. THE OLD LADY AND ANA -1st CORINTHIANS 15:51-57 (The Resurrection Message)

Ana was visibly concerned as she always becomes, when she cannot find a suitable answer to a problem. It is now three days since her father, at Easter Sunday lunch, had stated that now
that “Jesus has risen, we are ready for the last trumpet to sound”.

This did not make any sense to her, so she sought out her grand mother to help her.
“Gramma can you please explain why Dad said he was ready for the last trumpet to sound. Does he mean that he was leaving us?”

The old lady looked up from her letter writing and said to her in a soft, soothing tone:
“No Ana, that wasn’t quite what he said, and he definitely does not plan to leave anytime soon. He was quoting from a letter of St. Paul to the Corinthians and referring to the benefits of Jesus’ resurrection from the dead. Let me find it for you;”
Opening her bible to 1st Corinthians 15:51-57, she began to read from St. Paul's message on the Resurrection:



Behold, I tell you a mystery:
We all shall not sleep,
but we shall all be changed,
in a moment, in the twinkling of an eye,
at the last trumpet:
for the trumpet shall sound,
and the dead shall be raised incorruptible,
and we shall be changed.
For this corruptible must put on incorruption,
and this mortal must put on immortality.

Looking up, the old lady made sure that she had Ana’s attention and said:
St. Paul was referring to the mystery of Resurrection. We will not all die, some of us may be alive, but at the appointed time we will be changed in a moment, in “a twinkling of the eye”. For on the day when ‘the trumpet sounds’ the dead will be raised, and we will all be changed and become without sin and indestructible and we will be immortal.”

Ana by now had become visibly relieved, and looking directly at her grand mother, said:
“Gramma, are you referring to resurrection when God promised to wake us up from the dead and take us to heaven?

The old lady smiled approvingly and continued:
“You are correct my child, listen to what St. Paul says about this moment":




But when this corruptible shall have put on incorruption,
and this mortal shall have put on immortality,
then shall come to pass the saying that is written,
Death is swallowed up in victory.
O death, where is thy victory?
O death, where is thy sting?
The sting of death is sin;
and the power of sin is the law:

"You see Ana when it happens, our evil ways are covered and we are transformed into the likeness of God himself. We will have fulfilled the words of all the prophets before us and have confirmed the victory of God over evil. For death, with all the sorrows and pain caused by our sins and evil ways, has no final victory on us at the resurrection."

Ana, brimming with happiness and overflowing with joy, sat up knowingly and announced confidently:
“Now I can understand why Dad spoke of the last trumpet because that would be the sign that God has triumphed over Satan and we shall all be delivered into God’s kingdom forever."

The old lady at this point held her grand daughter hands tenderly between her own and responded with equal fervor:



“Hallelujah! Let us give thanks to God, Almighty the way St. Paul recorded to the Corinthians:”

But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory,
through our Lord Jesus Christ.

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

16. THE OLD LADY AND ANA-Luke 6:35-38 (Judging People)

Ana sat next to her father as they listened to Uncle Jim, her father’s first cousin, continuing his usual comments about his lazy and useless brothers who prefer to sponge on him rather than do an honest day’s work. Every Sunday morning Uncle Jim has a habit of stopping over after attending church to have coffee and complain to her father about everybody and everything.
After he left, Ana approached her grandmother and with some hesitancy asked her:
“Gramma, why is Uncle Jim always so angry and is always judging everybody so much. It looks as if nobody is good enough for him?”
The old lady who was sitting at the table, obviously pleased by her grand daughter’s insight, held her hand and guided her to sit next to her. Opening her bible to the Gospel according to Luke, she searched out chapter 6, verses 35 – 38, and then addressed her:
My dear Ana, I am sorry to say that you are very right. Uncle Jim has a bad habit of judging everybody and it sounds as if he is angry all the time. Although he means well, I have often quarreled with him and reminded him that this is not what the Lord expects from us. In fact he taught us the very opposite. Listen to this:




Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.
Do not judge, and you will not be judged.
Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned.

You see Ana, Jesus was quite clear in his advice to us. He left no doubt about what God expects from us with regard to being merciful, or not judging others, or not condemning others. He was referring to all those people who are always finding fault in others as they go around thinking “I am right and they are wrong”. I am thinking of a few people, who are devout and sincere Christians who nevertheless are very strict, judgmental and critical of others. Despite their good intentions, they are wrong and God will treat them accordingly.
How we should treat others is the very basis of the message Jesus brought to us. If you recall, Jesus deliberately associated with “losers” and social outcasts like paupers, lepers, prostitutes, tax-collectors and others who were broken and sinful. He did not judge not did he condemn, he loved everyone and expected us, as his followers, to do the same.

Ana listening intently, nodded her head to indicate that she understood and agreed with her grand mother and taking a deep breath she asked:
“What should we be saying to people like Uncle Jim to get them to understand what God wants them to do?”
The old lady sat back on the chair with her eyes closed in deep thought for a short while and them looked at Ana and answered:
We can do no better than to remind them of the advice and the promise Jesus himself gave. Let me read them for you in verses 37 and 38":




Forgive, and you will be forgiven.
Give, and it will be given to you.
A good measure, pressed down,
shaken together and running over,
will be poured into your lap.
For with the measure you use,
it will be measured to you.”

“You see Ana, Jesus could not be clearer. We are all sinners and wrong doers and unless we forgive others how could you be forgiven. He even went further to confirm that when you give your reward will be measured back to you running over and overflowing.
So we can only pray that good people like your Uncle Joe and my friends will one day wake up to their mistake and begin to heed the words Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior.”

Ana got up from her chair and thanking her Grandmother, said as she walked away:

I will be praying for all those people to begin to listen and understand what Jesus really said.”

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

13. THE OLD LADY AND ANA -MATTHEW 6:5-15(The Perfect Prayer)

Little Ana was perplexed as she sought out her grand mother after returning from her day at school. She could not understand why her teacher, Miss Linda, said that we should always pray the Lord’s Prayer as often as possible even if we don’t use any other prayer.
Sliding next to her grand mother on the couch, Ana turned to her and earnestly asked:
“Gramma, is the Lord’s Prayer your favorite prayer?”
The old lady smiled knowingly and as she picked up her trusted bible. She recalled an incident many years ago when as a child not much older than Ana, she addressed a similar question to her aunt, Sister Mary, a nun who was visiting the family. She vividly recalled asking her aunt what was her favorite prayer and her reply was that she always chooses the one prayer that Jesus himself taught us. Sister Mary then proceeded to explain the meaning of the Lord’s prayer and even referred several times to the bible for confirmation. And now after so many years have passed, she has been given the opportunity to pass on this information to a new generation.
She turned to Ana and in a voice overflowing with confidence answered that her teacher was absolutely correct in stating that this was indeed the prayer given to us by Jesus when he taught us how to pray. Opening the bible to Matthew 6: 5-15, she looked at Ana then began to read these holy words:



And when you pray,


you shall not be like the hypocrites.


For they love to pray standing in the synagogues


and on the corners of the streets,


that they may be seen by men.


Assuredly, I say to you, they have their reward.


But you, when you pray,


go into your room,and when you have shut your door,


pray to your Father who is in the secret place;


and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly.


And when you pray,


do not use vain repetitions as the heathen do.


For they think that they will be heard for their many words.
Therefore do not be like them.


For your Father knows the things


you have need of before you
The old lady paused for a moment then holding Ana's hands, she said:
“You see Ana, even before he gave us the prayer, he took time to teach us how and why we should pray to God, and also what we should not do. You notice he stressed that your prayer should be a private encounter between you and your Father in Heaven. He cautioned against being like the public hypocrite who wants to show-off, and the insincere manipulator, who hopes to gain notice by repeating the words over and over without meaning it.
Remember also, since God knows all things, he knows what is in your heart, so it is not what you say that matters as much as how you do so”.

Ana sat upright, taking in every word her grand mother said and apart from an occasional nod, said nothing. She was beginning to realize that praying is really a conversation with God, a vital way we are given to keep in touch. Also that we must be sure that we do it right so that God will listen to us.
After a short while had passed, the old lady looked at Ana and asked her if she would like to hear the words Jesus had taught us to say. Ana nodded expectantly:


In this manner, therefore, pray:


“Our Father in heaven,Hallowed be your name,


your kingdom come.


Your will be done,On earth as it is in heaven.


Give us this day, our daily bread.


And forgive us our debts,


As we forgive our debtors.


And do not lead us into temptation,


But deliver us from the evil one.


For yours is the kingdom and the power,and the glory forever".


Amen.
The old lady closed her eyes and continued to pray silently. She was thanking God for giving her the opportunity to pass on a teaching which she herself had received from her aunt, so many years ago, and hoped that she will be as successful with Ana, as Sister Mary was with her.
She then turned to Ana and said:
“This prayer is often called “The Perfect Prayer”. Every line and every word has a meaning and a purpose that has to be understood, otherwise it will become something you just recite without feeling.
The prayer is also unique because it allows you to expand it in relation to your special needs and to really make it personal, between you and the Almighty.
-Notice it begins with a recognition and acknowledgement of God’s authority over all thedomains in heaven and on earth. God is the creator and master of all!
-It then deals with asking God to fulfill all the daily needs of our physical and spiritual life,recognizing that God alone has the power to do so. He used the "daily bread" to refer to your whole life and so when you pray you may include anything that affects your life.
-It goes on to deal with a plea for forgiveness for all the wrong things we have done to others, while at the same time acknowledging that we need God’s help to forgive those people who have wronged us. Without this, we are destined to a life of misery and will never find happiness.
-It then deals with the issue of sinning. Recognizing our own weaknesses, we ask God to help us to avoid falling to temptation, as well as to help us to recover when we fall into sin, for without his help we are doomed to failure.
-It ends by acknowledging as we should all proudly do, over and over, that God is the power and glory forever, and we must never be afraid to proclaim this.”

The old lady paused, took a deep breath, and then hugging her grand daughter with such a loving intensity and sense of gratitude as only a grand mother can do, exclaimed for all to hear:



……. AMEN!

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

15. THE OLD LADY AND ANA-PSALM 54:1-7(Trust in God)

Ana listened intently, as her Uncle Fred related his problems to her father. People were spreading bad rumors about him and as a result his business had suffered badly and he was worried that he might lose it. Yet he was calm and kept saying that he was not worried and had faith that God will provide an answer as he promised in Psalm 62:



“My salvation and my honor depend on God;


He is my mighty rock, my refuge”.
Ana was worried, she knew her uncle was always a kind and faithful person who spent his whole life helping people and never ever said anything bad about anybody. She could not understand why people are so wicked. But she marveled at how calm he was even with all that was going on. She sought out her Grandmother, who she hoped will help her to understand.
“Gramma, can you please explain how Uncle Fred could remain so calm and confident when so much bad things are happening to him?”

The old lady, sensing an opportunity to teach her grand daughter on the ways of the world beckoned her to come sit next to her and opening her trusted bible said:

“Let us see what God has said about trusting him in times of trouble;”
Then turning to Psalm 54 she began to read slowly and deliberately:



Save me, O God, by Your name,


And vindicate me by Your power.


Hear my prayer, O God;


Give ear to the words of my mouth.


For strangers have risen against me


and violent men have sought my life;


Ana sat up immediately, eyes wide open she held her grandmother’s arm and exclaimed knowingly:
“Gramma, that is exactly what Uncle Fred was saying about wicked people wanting to destroy him!”

The old lady smiled and nodded affirmatively, then continued reading:



They have not set God before them.


Behold, God is my helper;


The Lord is the sustainer of my soul.



The old lady paused a while and then spoke:
“This is what your Uncle Fred was also saying. These people were not concerned about God and that is why he was not worried, for he had faith in the power of of God to protect him from them”


Sensing little Ana’s concern, she continued to read from her bible:


He will recompense the evil to my foes;


Destroy them in Your faithfulness.




You see Ana, his promise was clear. This was how he will reward his faithful. Not only will


he make the bad people pay for the evil they have done, but is prepared to destroy them and


what they stand for”.



Ana thought for a moment and then looking at her grand mother she remarked:
“Now I understand why Uncle Fred was not looking so worried about his future. He must have a strong faith in God at a time like this, because he keeps thanking and praising God for everything”.

The old lady obviously pleased with the child’s insight, replied:
“You are quite right my child. You must never forget to give praise and thanks to God in all things. So often we ask God for help and then do not pause to thank him. Listen to what the rest of the Psalm says":



Willingly I will sacrifice to You;
I will give thanks to Your name, O LORD,


for it is good.


For He has delivered me from all trouble,


And my eye has looked with satisfaction upon my enemies.



“He does not hesitate to give thanks and acknowledgement to God for delivering him from his enemies. But notice the last line, even though they were trying to destroy him, he still looked kindly on his enemies, meaning that there was no hate but love for them. This is what Jesus came on earth to teach us. This is what makes a good Christian.”

As the old lady closed her bible, she quietly thanked God for this opportunity to teach her grand daughter his words. Ana stood up, hugging her grand mother as tight as she could, whispered to her:

“Thank God for you and for Uncle Fred and all the good people in the world.”